By default, reciprocal relationships are automatically created in the API so you would need to:
  1. Add the organizational relationship
  2. Set the is_Primary flag to false
        Set oInd = New CIndividual2
        With oInd
            .Init REApplication.SessionContext
            .Load lRecipID ‘reciprocal id from org relationship
            .Fields(INDIVIDUAL2_fld_IS_PRIMARY) = False
            .Delete False
        End With
        Set oInd = Nothing
  3. Delete the reciprocal individual relationship which was created by default on the organization

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