The Relationship records have been linked either manually, or via the Nonconstituent Merge Utility. When the records are merged, updating one will update all of them if they are linked.
Alternate Solution:
1. Delete and re-create the organization relationships that they do not wish to be merged
2. Going forward, do not merge org relationships (say NO to the prompt that indicates that this cannot be undone)
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